Is your wedding affected by Coronavirus??? Worry not! I CAN HELP!

Are you worried your destination wedding could be impacted by Coronavirus?

It is expected that weddings that involve international travel will be affected first. Additionally, shipments of wedding items such as outfits, welcome bags, favours and memorabilia might be also affected.

No matter the challenge, there’s always a solution, so don’t let the panic set in! I want to keep this blog post positive by proposing some value solutions for your consideration.

Is your wedding to be in the affected area?

There are two solutions here really, postpone your date or consider hosting your wedding in your home country. For those clients of mine who choose to bring their wedding back to the UK or Scotland, I can secure locally sourced and recommended suppliers to ensure you’re covered under all circumstances.

Are you unable to move your wedding?

In case of any cancellations, understand all policies involved and if you’re booking travel, ensure you opt in for flexible cancellation terms. It is also highly recommended to obtain fully comprehensive travel insurance for all of your travels during the Coronavirus outbreak.

If your guests will also be travelling to your wedding, plan for smaller numbers, just in case, to avoid disappointment.

Are you beginning to shop for a wedding dress or awaiting its shipment?

I highly recommend working with your local dress designers or even consider purchasing your dress off-the-rack if your wedding is only under three months away. This is to avoid disappointment, and ensure that you don’t set your heart on a dress that may not be ready on time. You can always ask for local alterations to ensure you love your selected dress.

The same applies to any accessories you might have ordered or considered to order from China – under the current circumstances you might want to consider shopping locally or be creative with what’s available in the shops just now.

Are you only a few weeks away from your special day? Worry not!

It’s OK to plan for everything to go on as it is, but remember to stay informed and ensure you seek regular updates from your vendors.

It is also highly beneficial to keep your wedding website updated for your guests, so you can avoid numerous questions from your family and friends.

You might also consider streaming the most important parts of your wedding to your elderly and vulnerable guests.

Are you just starting to plan your wedding?

Plan ahead – you will have learnt that these are my favourite words! Don’t leave the big decision to the last minute, but most of all don’t panic! Weddings are normally planned for at least one to two years in advance, so if you’re making your plans for a wedding in 2021 or even further away, you shouldn’t worry. Make sure you check your cancellation policies and don’t underappreciate the value of wedding insurance!

If your destination wedding is being impacted by Coronavirus and you don’t know how to combat your challenges – I can help you! If you were to consider to move your wedding back home, I can take care of all the important arrangements including sourcing locally recommend suppliers to ensure we can bring your dream wedding vision to life in the UK!

Venue Wedding Coordinator vs. Independent Wedding Planner

Over the past three weeks I was asked to present my Guide to Effective Wedding Planning talk at wedding open days, wedding fair and wedding showcases throughout Scotland.

At the end of these presentations, I was often asked by couples: "What is a Wedding Planner?" and "How does your role differ from their Venue Coordinator?"⁠⠀
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In few pointers below, I would like to bring to you the differences between my past venue roles and my current independent wedding planning role.⁠

I want to reassure you upfront that Venue Coordinators and Wedding Planners complement themselves in their efforts and can truly work together on creating the most magical day for you and your guests!

Firstly, let’s begin with a little bit about my background. I've been a Venue Coordinator for many years and at times I used to look after over 100 weddings each year across up to three venues.⁠⠀

Let's put this into perspective, many Venue Coordinators do an amazing job, win national awards for their excellent work and provide the best service possible, just like I did! Nevertheless, I'm sure a lot of you will agree that over 100 weddings each year is a lot!⁠⠀

My aim as an Independent Wedding Planner is to focus on 10 very special wedding celebrations per year and truly provide a top class service to each and every one of my couples! That's less than one wedding per month - can you see the benefits to that?⁠⠀

Another interesting factual difference is wedding suppliers relationship.⁠⠀

As a Venue Coordinator, I booked suppliers included in our packages such as Piper, Toastmaster, Linen Company, however, for all other requests I would have had my Recommended Suppliers List for couples to approach separately.⁠⠀

Now, that I work with couples directly, I can take care of all admin related to booking your wedding suppliers. Not only will I negotiate your rates (preferential trade rates, often in turn covering my fee), but I can also liaise and book those suppliers for you, without the need for you to worry about anything - removing the stress factor completely!⁠⠀

This is the area couples feel most overwhelmed by majority of the time, with managing multiple contacts and communication streams at the same time and ensuing everyone is all on the same page.⁠⠀

How do you feel about managing your time, multiple contacts and all relevant information effectively? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.⁠⠀

My final thought on the subject of Venue Coordinators vs. Independent Wedding Planners is the convenience and availability factor.⁠⠀

It was always difficult for me to detach myself from the most important day for my wedding couples, on my days off and holidays.⁠⠀

This was very clear when returning to the office from my days off or holidays and my inbox and voicemail were bursting.⁠⠀

It is a difficult balance for Venue Coordinators working when wedding couples are at work, and off duty when their couples plan their weddings.⁠⠀

I find this as the biggest advantage now that I can be available for my wedding couples at the most convenient times for them, online or at the most suitable appointment location to them, being unrestricted by venue walls.⁠⠀

All in all, Venue Wedding Coordinator and Independent Wedding Planner roles vary and at the same time complement one another very much! Irrespective of the roles, it is everyone’s passion in this industry to provide the best dream wedding experience possible to all happy couples.

Let me know in the comments below how helpful you’ve found this blog and feel free to book my FREE 15 Minutes Discovery Call to discuss how I could help you make your dream wedding vision a perfect reality!

Travelling Central Europe in search of traditional wedding customs.

After travelling over 3,000 miles across Central Europe, I thought I would share with you my most interesting discoveries relating to various cultural wedding customs.

I started my journey from Edinburgh on Tuesday 14th January heading to the beautiful capital city of Prague in Czech Republic.

I have been to Prague in my early teens with my Granny, but I’ve always dreamt of going back and this dream has finally come true.

Following my visit, I thought to share with you all the wedding traditions I’ve learnt about:

Wreath of Rosemary

Bridesmaids create a wreath made with rosemary on the night prior to the wedding for the Bride to either wear or hold during her wedding ceremony, this is in hope for wisdom, love and happiness. Rosemary sprigs are also given out to wedding guests as favours to encourage happiness and fertility.

Rope gate

Another popular tradition in Czech weddings is for the couple to be stopped right outside of the ceremony venue with a rope decorated with flowers and empty bottles by the friends of the Groom. It is his responsibility to pay his way for the sins of his adolescence, permitting entry to the wedding venue.

Smashing plates

This one is a responsibility of a venue coordinator to smash a plate right in front of the wedding couple as they arrive for their wedding breakfast. It is the couple’s job to clean it all up in front of their guests, giving them the opportunity to prove the harmony in their relationship, and willingness to work as a team in the face of all obstacles.

Love of Beer

Beer in Czech Republic can often be found cheaper than a bottle of mineral water – this is yet another reason why weddings in Czech Republic are so popular.

Eating soup jointly

Could you imagine enjoying your soup jointly, using one soup spoon? This tradition prevails even today, showing that married couples must always work out difficulties together and go halves in everyday life.

Disappearance of the Bride

When the wedding is at its peak, the Bride is carried out by the Groom’s friends. The Groom must find her as soon as possible, if he doesn’t achieve that within a given timeframe, he’s got to yet again pay his way to be re-joined with his newlywed Bride. This symbolises disconnection of the bride from her parents and the start of a new life with her brand-new husband.

After five days of enjoying many amazing Czech attractions and their world-class beers, I headed from Praha Hlavni Nadrazi (Prague – Central Train Station) to Wroclaw Glowny, Poland on a four hour inter-state train journey through the mountains.

I travelled north to my home town of Legnica, in the south west of Poland. Whilst visiting family and wedding professional friends in Poland, I remembered a few polish wedding traditions, some of which featured at my own wedding two years ago.

Majority of weddings in churches

Polish people in majority are Catholic, which means that most wedding ceremonies will take place at a church, followed by a reception at a banqueting hall or venue. The Polish Government signed an agreement with the Catholic Church, meaning that all Catholic wedding ceremonies are legally binding.

Love of Vodka

Poland is very well known for its vodka, which is very reasonably priced, which is why so many wedding traditions involve vodka!

Firstly, the wedding couple are greeted with one shot of water and one shot of vodka upon their arrival to the Wedding Breakfast. Whoever selects the vodka is expected to be the boss in the relationship. The Couple then proceed to throw the shot glass over their left shoulder, symbolising the start to their new married life together, leaving the past behind.

Finally, vodka is provided on all tables for guests to enjoy along with a selection of mixers and replenished throughout the night, ensuring the guests have the best celebrations.

Bread and salt

Another tradition dedicated to the arrival of the couple to their Wedding Breakfast is the provision of a ‘wedding bread’ and salt. Both sets of parents are responsible to greet the couple with a specially decorated, and baked for the occasion, loaf of bread and salt. The Couple tear off a piece of bread and consume it with a pinch of salt. The bread symbolises no hunger and the salt flavour in the marriage.

Long celebrations

Can you imagine your wedding celebrations lasting two, three days or sometimes even a week? In Poland, this is quite standard. Most weddings last a minimum of two days, with main celebrations and the ceremony on day one and a full meal with all family and friends before the guest departure on the second day. In the highlands of Poland, however, weddings will last up to a week and each day will involve a different activity for the wedding celebrations.

Midnight Games – pol. Oczepiny

Since all weddings in Poland last into the wee hours of the following morning, sometimes as late as 7am, all guests gather round the dance floor at midnight to take part in the Midnight Games  (pol. Oczepiny). These games are normally organised by their ceremony witnesses and can involve both physical activities as well as quiz style games. This is a fun way to break the night and involve both the wedding couple and their guests in ice breaker activities.

After over a week of travelling, visiting family and enjoying some plentiful Central European food, I am now back to my beloved home in Scotland, to see you all soon at the upcoming open days and wedding showcases in Edinburgh.

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Wishing you all a fantastic February!